Growing up, we always heard that relationships should be a certain way. You meet someone, you fall in love, get married, and have kids. However, there is so much more that we should have been taught. We should have been taught how to communicate feelings, what love languages are and how to love someone with their love languages, how to set healthy boundaries, attachment styles, how to maintain attraction, and more.
Learning all of these things can help you maintain healthier relationships and bring you closer to the person you are dating. Communication is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Being able to express your feelings, thoughts, and concerns can make or break your relationship. With communication, you will be able to talk about what your boundaries are and what kind of attachment styles you both have.
It’s important to understand your own love languages and what they mean to you as well as knowing your partners. The five love languages are words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, gifts, and acts of service. Understanding what your top love languages are and telling your partner how they can do them best is key to understanding how to love each other. In doing this, you will help maintain attraction for each other too!