It’s natural to want to connect with and be cared for by others, especially in relationships. The way you maintain those relationships can say which type of attachment style you have. Studies show that your relationship with your parents is influential on your attachment style. There are four types of attachment styles: Anxious (preoccupied) AvoidantContinue reading “Attachment Styles”
Category Archives: Self Improvement
Stop Apologizing For Things That Are Normal
The societal pressures that men and women face daily have become insane. It almost feels like everything you do is criticized and critiqued in some way. If someone prefers to be more natural, they are ridiculed for not caring about their looks. If someone prefers to wear makeup and have their hair done, they areContinue reading “Stop Apologizing For Things That Are Normal”
What We Should Have Been Taught For Relationships
Growing up, we always heard that relationships should be a certain way. You meet someone, you fall in love, get married, and have kids. However, there is so much more that we should have been taught. We should have been taught how to communicate feelings, what love languages are and how to love someone withContinue reading “What We Should Have Been Taught For Relationships”
Productivity Hacks
Maximizing time and efficiency can be a difficult thing to do. Research has shown that there are certain hacks to help you become more productive, if done correctly. Here are some of my favorite productivity hacks: Focusing on one task at a time rather than trying to multitask Multitasking typically has a negative effect onContinue reading “Productivity Hacks”
Anxiety Triggers & Anxiety Soothers
One thing that people don’t always understand is that anxiety can be brought on by certain triggers as well as being a day-to-day struggle. It is common for people with anxiety to have good and bad days. In a previous blog, I talked about how healing is not always linear. You may be having aContinue reading “Anxiety Triggers & Anxiety Soothers”
Rest is Not a Reward
Oftentimes, people believe they need to earn their rest. They might say “I’ve worked hard this week, I deserve to rest this weekend,” but the truth is, you should simply say, “I deserve to rest.” You, as a human being, deserve to have rest. And you need it! You shouldn’t feel guilty or feel theContinue reading “Rest is Not a Reward”
Signs Your Mental Health is Getting Bad Again
Something that a lot of people don’t understand is that healing is not linear. If you are struggling with depression and/or anxiety, you are going to have good days and bad days. It is completely normal to have a bad day, even after having a good stretch of days. While it is normal, it isContinue reading “Signs Your Mental Health is Getting Bad Again”
How to Create the Life You Want in One Year
Do a life audit This is where you will find exactly where you need to make changes or adjustments. There are 8 areas of life that you should look at: health, finances, personal development, career, relationships, self-care, home life, and free time Shifting your mindset The way we think and believe correlates with how weContinue reading “How to Create the Life You Want in One Year”
Putting Yourself First
If you don’t pick a day to relax, your body will pick it for you. Oftentimes, we become accustomed to pushing forward and working through whatever we have going on. We start to feel overwhelmed, stressed, tired, or sick and we continue on with our lives. When we do this we are forcing our bodiesContinue reading “Putting Yourself First”
Affirmations
An affirmation is the act of confirming things to be true. These can be things that are written down or said out loud. Similar to speaking things into existence. Implementing affirmations into your life can help with self-improvement, empowerment, and positive thinking. You can find affirmations that apply to your life and say them toContinue reading “Affirmations”